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Gay military men are diamonds in the rough.
Gay Military men do it best – for real! That’s not to say that straight guys serving our country don’t know what they’re doing so please don’t misunderstand me.
But as a guy who has been around awhile, I’m here to tell you that the gay men in our armed forces know how to handle any situation, particularly when it comes to love, sex and romance.
I should know – I’m a former member of the U.S Army and served four years.
Given the nature of this site, I decided to come up with 10 great reasons you should be setting your sites on gay guys in the military.
And so if you’re in a dating rut, stop wasting your time on the apps and head on over to Out Military on Facebook.
There’s plenty of single, hot men that are just waiting to meet you!
What follows are 10 solid reasons why gay military men do it best and why you need to start dating one now!
1. We’re super caring
Most people in the military are good listeners but gay men in uniform are particularly skilled in this area. That’s because we many of us know how to empathize with others who are in a place of pain.
We’ve seen human suffering at its worst; we know the importance of kindness.
2. We’re protective
If you want a boyfriend who will protect you from the idiots and jerks of the word, you can’t go wrong with a gay military guy.
Most of us are protective by nature and our training only amplifies this instinct. And yes – we tend to be territorial but not in a bad way.
3. On time – all the time
Sick of flakey guys who show up late for planned get-togethers? When you date a gay guy in the service, that’s likely never going to happen.
In fact, most of us show up at the appointed time and place with military precision!
4. Amazing kissers
When’s the last time a hot guy planted a real man-kiss on you? If it’s been forever, maybe it’s time to set your sites on a gay man in uniform.
That’s because everything we do is done with passion.
4. Great in bed
One of the biggest benefits of dating someone gay in the military is bedroom time. Here’s why – most of us view the experience as a mission of pleasure.
We know exactly where your erotic zones are and more importantly, where they aren’t. Plus, we have great stamina!
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5. Well disciplined
If you need structure in your life, look no further. Dating a man in uniform is a surefire way to guarantee everything happens exactly as planned.
It’s just our way of life and when you date one of us, it will become yours too!
6. Old fashioned romantic
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We gay military men are old school when it comes to romance. That’s because like all people in the armed forces, we’ve learned to show our affection in not so subtle ways.
If you’re pining for a guy who likes to take it slow and easy, gay men in the service is your best bet! And contrary to popular belief, there’s nothing vanilla about us!
7. Our uniforms never go out of style
Think about it – has a man in uniform ever gone out of style? To this day, our culture fetishes military men and with good reason.
We’re a hot looking group with a classic, ageless look.
8. We’re smart
Don’t believe the stereotypes about “jarheads” in the marines or army “dummies” who joined the service as a last resort. It’s total BS.
Most all of us have advanced training with college degrees. We can hold our own in conversations and then some!
9. We’re physically strong
To a fault, most military men are strong and this is particularly true of gay service members. That’s because we are required (for the most part) to take care of our bodies and be ready for battle at a moment’s notice.
If you are looking for a fit gay guy, look no further than the military.
10. We’re culturally competent
A good sized portion of military personnel will live in different locations several times over the course of their careers. This allows us to be exposed to different types of people. The end result?
We’re culturally competent This means we can teach you about many different places in the world.
Summing It Up
I realize that not every single trait here applies to every single gay guy in the military. But on the whole, it’s safe to say that most of them do.
So the next time you start feeling blue because you’re still a single gay man, remember there are tons of guys in our armed forces who are just waiting to meet you!
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Editorial note: MV would like to thank all who serve in the United States military. We owe you a debt of gratitude that can truly never be repaid.
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Editor’s Note: This article originally appeared at Cellar Door, the personal blog of Gabrielle Puglia.
There have been a few articles about the pros and cons of dating the Generation Y military man, and while some of them are better reads than others, I felt the need to weigh in. This is based solely on the experiences of my veteran friends, as well as my own with a past paramour. This list is not simply a composition of pros or cons, but rather an overview of what dating a service member — active duty or veteran — is like.
1. Slowly break the barrier. The military teaches service members to trust their unit, and few others. They are meant to be extremely close with this group of people and everyone else is simply on a need-to-know basis. As the significant other, you will not get more details than necessary on anything unless you poke and prod. It is a lot of work to break down those barriers and gain enough trust for him open up and be vulnerable. But, trust me, it is worth the effort.
2. Be patient. Do not expect this vulnerability to come quickly. If he comes to you with a problem, chances are he'll talk about it until he no longer wants to and then go into lockdown. Be patient, but keep digging at those walls.
3. Respect the band of brothers. You need to understand that the military is a brotherhood. Military men may never have closer relationships than those they made in the military. That is not a good thing or a bad thing, that is just a matter of fact and something you need to understand. It is not a competition between his military friends and you; they are people who shared a very intimate part of his life, and you should want to be close with them, too.
4. Appreciate his loyalty. Many military creeds reference loyalty or unity. Military men are used to their band of brothers, and are bred to be loyal and protective. He will love you fiercely and be the most faithful companion, if you can promise the same.
5. Get over the air of authority. Some branches of the military (I’m looking at you, Marines) have a feeling of superiority over others. Granted, that is earned due to the nature of their work and how much they put on the line. However, in the civilian world, or in a relationship, it may be a little hard to deal with. His way is the best way because he knows best. Especially if he is coming from a higher rank, it may be increasingly difficult for him to “fall in line” with civilian life. You need to understand this and realize how difficult it is.
6. Recognize the invisible wounds. Not every soldier comes home with post-traumatic stress. However, for those who do, there is nothing wrong with that. Just keep in mind that the chances of him wanting to open up and talk about it — let alone seek help — are slim to none, at least at first. This will be trying for you, but imagine how he feels. Expect sleepless nights, and bouts of being on the receiving end of awkward silences. These things happen. You need to try your hardest to understand, get him to eventually talk about it (preferably to a professional) and pretty much avoid all triggers — like war movies.
7. Enjoy the fun facts. Military men have likely traveled to parts of the world you have not, and can tell you facts about different cultures/countries/states. You will be inundated with more random facts about places like the Middle East or the South than you care to cram into your brain. Trust me, eventually, they will come up. I won a round of trivia just because I knew the currency in Bahrain. Fun facts are everywhere, and it doesn’t hurt for you to sound more worldly too!
8. Don’t forget to show your pride. I am a sucker for someone who is passionate about his work. Service members fight to defend our country. They are modern day heroes; if that’s not something to be proud of, I’m not quite sure what is!
9. Let him do the driving. Military men are used to being thrown into countries and situations with which they are unfamiliar, so when traveling, always expect to have a great navigator around.
Basically, dating a Generation Y military man is no different than dating anyone else. Sure, they have baggage, but don’t we all? His may be unimaginable to you, but that does not make him any better or worse. Dating a service member is not all fun and games; it takes a lot of work and patience, but if you are interested in the person and not just the uniform, then he is definitely worth the pursuit. Also, if you are lucky enough to date one (or some!) of our country's finest service members, don’t feel like you have to abide by all of these guidelines. Just be a decent human being and you will get decency back.
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Gabrielle Puglia is a free spirit with a wild heart. Perpetual overthinker, good-doer, book nerd, wine connoisseur and amateur world traveler.
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